Look, the fact that most of the men in today's generation act the way they do in romantic relationships (whether that relationship be "talking," dating, boyfriend-girlfriend, or whatever) disgusts me! I just don't understand the level of entitlement that most guys feel they have just because they spend a couple of dollars takin' a girl out to dinner or something. NEWSFLASH! You're the guy...that's what you're suppose to do! SMH. Also, why is it that when females who aren't so quick to pull out the duckets, labeled GOLD DIGGERS? Maybe this is just me being old-fashioned, but I believe that guys who expect a certain kind of relationship, should have to put in the work. No, "putting in work" doesn't just mean paying for the dates, but it also entails being there for emotional support consistently, not just when you feel like it. Basically, what I'm trying to say is that most guys percieve interaction with women as a "cost-benefit" equation...In other words, they're trying to figure what's the least amount of work they have to put in to get what they want....
--Tania aka Nia Janei...THE Prototype
