Friends and YOUR Life

I have been through a lot for my young age, as I'm sure a lot of you who may read this have...and throughout my 22 1/2 years of life I have encountered a variety of people. Thus, I have developed multiple ways of dealing with different people. Despite this, one thing of I believe all people should do is, take a step back and analyze the people they are close to, specifically those they call "friends".

Some questions you may want to ask yourself are: Are these people moving in the right direction in THEIR lives? Do they want what's best for me as their FRIEND? (The envy of "supposed friends" can have an effect on how progressive a person is towards their goals...especially if those friends resent your success, among other things). Also, do they have legit goals, dreams, aspirations? Are they putting forth the effort needed to make those things come to pass? Or are they just...STAGNANT?  

In other words, are your friends just taking their sweet time to get to WHEREVER they're going to the point that it's doing more to HURT them, than HELP them? Don't get me wrong, not everyone's path is the same, but some people have a tendency to get sidetracked by stagnancy and take a wrong turn into the pathway of complacency. For example, we all know people who had ALL the potential in the world...but are stuck in some current state that you feel is WAAAY beneath them. My point is that, just like a person doesn't need to hang around those who are an OBVIOUS bad influence on their life and well-being, they also need to cut ties with people who are PASSIVELY holding them back...people who subconsciously give off vibes that go AGAINST determination, tenacity, and hard work. Stagnancy can rub off on people, just like other behavior that's not conducive to success.

Bottom line, it's important to know the people around you. It's important to know that they are just as determined in THEIR goals as you are in yours because THIS, yes this has a tendency to rub off as well. I don't know about anyone else,  but seeing OTHER people's success...only makes ME want to go after mine even harder...and that's a GOOD thing....


-Tania AKA Nia Janei...THE Prototype

DIGITAL DEHYDRATION: a RISING Epidemic

You've ALL experienced it...well, maybe not ALL of you...lol; but if you're even HALFway attractive, (or can use the HELL out of photoshop lol)...and have an internet profile on some social network (Twitter, Facebook, etc), it's very likely that you've had an experience dealing with a person suffering from this disease. "What disease?"...you may ask......[DIGITAL DEHYDRATION] otherwise known as "being thirsty"....a spreading epidemic that's affecting more and more people online each and EVERY day!

For those of you who are STILL confused as to what being "thirsty" entails, it means being OVERLY eager for something...more specifically male and/or female attention. A person can show how thirsty he or she is ON and OFF line...but THIS post pertains just to ONline "ratchetness".

For example, a person who's thirsty may: post nude pics of themselves, send explicit messages to people, etc, etc...blah blah blah. They may also just...try "TOO HARD" to get at you, i.e. asking for your number 7 different times, in 7 different ways...with your response EACH time being some variation of, "No!"

And what's so bad about it is, thirsty people have the NERVE to catch an attitude when you reject their advances and try your hardest to stay IMMUNE to the shit...."NOOOOO I don't want to give you my number!...NOOOOO I'm not going to send you any pics of me! NOOOO you can't bite my ass!!!...I don't KNOW you...uggh!" lol. They JUST DON'T GET IT!! LOL smh.

Bottom line, you DON'T want to be a victim of this epidemic...if online, you so happen to run across a person who's beyond the shadow of a DOUBT suffering from "DIGITAL DEHYDRATION" the best way to handle them, is to IGNORE them. If this doesn't work, politely let them know that you're not interested. If THIS doesn't work...hell just BLOCK their ass. Like I said, some people just DON'T get it...and they never will...lol *shrugs*.

--Tania AKA Nia Janei...THE Prototype

the LOVE of "he"...by he

.......................instead of trying to consume me..........try understanding me. i am MORE than the [me] you see PHYSICALLY...i am an assortment of feelings, emotions--experiences......can you see THOSE things with the naked eye?....initially....yes?...no?....can you see the POTENTIAL of you, me?...with a raw scope?.....i am a daughter........i am a sister...........mother.......i am the core of the Earth.......without ME, there would be NO YOU....i bore you in my WOMB......has not at least SOME of MY sentiment worn off on you?...............your complete and constant self-indulgence will ONLY hurt you......in the long run. keep on, keepin' on.... the LOVE that waited for you, patiently enough, will ONE day be used, abused.....dried up, and......gone........

--Tania AKA Nia Janei...THE Prototype